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Christmas was magical and my favorite quote of the season was by my daughter ( 9 years) who upon Christmas morning as she rubbed the sleep from her eyes staring at the visual feast before her said:...
View ArticleLight, Love, Divorce and Family.
I am loving our new home/family dynamic since the move. It’s always good to plan for the worst and hope for the best and frankly I was not sure how we would all fare living together for the first...
View ArticleDivorce and Columbus
Sunlight by Christian Bothner It’s a beautiful day. I wonder when winter will arrive in New England but I am not going to complain. The winter used to scare me – a few years ago I was so overwhelmed...
View ArticleWhy do I blog?
Sometimes people challenge me about why I blog… i kind of put some distance between this post and the event but today something similar came up so I went back to the draft on this post and I’ve decided...
View ArticleA Love So Powerful
Shaw Age 2 There are those days as I wait for the kids to return from a weekend away with dad, when I physically ache for them. The best part of any divorce is that you get a break. The worst part of...
View ArticleOne Woman’s Junk- Another’s Treasure.
I spent my night last night re-reading the many love letters my Father sent to my Mother while he was in Vietnam. It’s so wonderfully bazaar to have access to those- and that time period in their...
View ArticleFive Alarm Taco Shell’s
Before..... It’s not even 5:00 yet and there’s no wine in the house. Is it age? or am I just getting blonder as my roots go darker? I just calmed myself down from the upsetting incident that just...
View ArticleA Poem to Set you Free
The Bird Nest by Linda Apple This poem by Mary Oliver has been near and dear to my heart since I first came upon it in the book : Ten Poems to Set You Free. Before I was finally able to find the...
View ArticleIf There Be Dragons Part 2
Rumi said that the origin of the wound is where the light gets in….. Yet before it does, the darkness will always have it’s way with you. To really know the difference means that each must have a...
View ArticleGame Changer
Had one of those conversations with my parenting partner today that made me want to bang my head on frozen cement and stick and ice pick up my nose. Ever had one of those? There are a few hiccups in...
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